By Damilola Ceaf Staff
Trying to have a good and promising relationship is not something that comes easily; there are serious obstacles that make it unbearable and un-enduring. When seeing two people with mutual feelings and qualities trying to maintain a good relationship but still they make errors. Having qualities sometime does not guarantee a perfect relationship but how the relationship is been maintained by each partner is paramount.
Sometimes people find it difficult to realize that they were in the wrong relationship but still they wanted to continue just because they believed other partner can change over time. Some even contemplate if they should find another partner so as not to waste time and energy on a phony relationship. Here are few ways to improve and maintain a good relationship.
Communication: This is important in a relationship because it enable individual to share common and related interest/story or gist, the way we talk and listen to each other. Trying to know each other matter a lot, so as not to offend each other, keeping silence kills a relationship. What we want to communicate to our partner should be clear and positive. Some people find it difficult to discuss some things with their partner but this should not be so, both partners should be free to talk to themselves about their feelings and other things. With this, both partners will correct their errors and maintain a lasting relationship.
Trust: This is why most relationship fails; trust really matters in a relationship, when partners trust themselves there will be freedom of expression of any issue with each other. When there is no trust one party might thinks the other is cheating and does not have the same feeling he or she have. When there is no trust several accusations of wrong doing shall be brought up.
Honesty: when both party are honest with each other the relationship tend to work perfectly, because with this no one has something to hide, being sincere to each other do not only prove our honesty but makes others learn from us.
Knowing how to apologise and forgive: We are all human and we all make mistake some time, so no one is a saint but, when we make mistakes we should be able to tender an apology to our partner and as well forgive one another when we make mistakes after all, to err is human, and to forgive is divine.
Dialogue: In a relationship issues/matters should be discussed thoroughly though argument will arise but conclusion should be met, no one should try to blame a situation on another partner.
Separate feelings from fact: When you love someone, it actually gets into your head but when trying to do something you should try and act or say the fact and not base it on feeling. Because this actually will be your weakness and it will be used against you.
Ask questions: sometimes it might be a foolish question but try to ask what you really don’t understand, so as to make you know who you are dealing with. This really help in trying to know you partner very well.
And lastly be Committed: putting everything in Faith is also important and because he never fails.
With this I think we have helped someone in his or her relationship
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